Brooke Shields, the renowned actress and model, has candidly discussed the challenges she faces with intimacy as she approaches her 60s. In her latest memoir, Brooke Shields Is Not Allowed to Get Old: Thoughts on Aging as a Woman, she reveals that physical changes associated with aging have made sex increasingly painful, necessitating various preparations to fully enjoy the experience.
Shields, now 59, reflects on her youthful years, noting that she had a "fervent sex drive" but felt constrained by societal expectations and personal inhibitions. She recalls losing her virginity at 22 to her college boyfriend, a milestone she delayed due to the "weight of the world" on her shoulders. Despite this, she admits she never truly allowed herself to "let loose" and fully embrace her desires.
As time has progressed, Shields acknowledges a significant shift in her sexual experiences. She describes the natural aging process, mentioning issues like thinning hair, the emergence of peach fuzz, new belly fat, vaginal dryness, and a diminishing sex drive. These changes have led to feelings of decreased self-esteem and a sense of being less appealing to her husband, Chris Henchy, despite their strong relationship.
A particularly distressing experience contributing to her current discomfort was an unsolicited labia rejuvenation procedure performed by a doctor she refers to as "Dr. Malpractice." This unauthorized surgery has resulted in ongoing pain during intercourse, further complicating her intimate life.
To mitigate these challenges, Shields has developed a regimen involving "lotions and potions," specific sleepwear, a special pillow, and occasionally a tequila to help her relax. Her doctor has suggested testosterone therapy to address her symptoms, but she has not yet pursued this option, expressing concerns about potential side effects like increased facial hair. Instead, she subscribes to the belief that increasing the frequency of sexual activity may enhance enjoyment over time.
Shields' openness about her experiences sheds light on the often-taboo subject of sexual health and aging. By sharing her story, she aims to normalize these conversations and encourage others facing similar issues to seek support and solutions. Her memoir delves deeper into these topics, offering an intimate look at her journey and the lessons learned along the way.
Brooke Shields Is Not Allowed to Get Old: Thoughts on Aging as a Woman is available now, providing readers with an unfiltered perspective on the complexities of aging, intimacy, and self-acceptance.
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